Saturday, April 3, 2010

Birthday party abbreviated

Our planned birthday celebration for Collin today ended up not exactly as planned after Collin (sorry too much information to follow) had several diarrhea diapers and a 102 degree fever. Mike made his delicious smoked ribs and wings which is way too much for our little family and other family members already planned to bring side dishes, and I slaved away at my first birthday cake so dammit we would still have some kind of party!



Instead of having our sit down dinner and birthday bash both sets of grandparents came over with gifts and took the food to go. Collin ended up doing better than we expected so everyone hung out for a bit and he got to blow out the candles with Mike's help. He ate a few bites of his cake but wasn't interested in food. We probably could have had our sit down dinner after all as planned but you just never know what a sick kid will be like. Spikes in fever? Projectile vomiting? Surprises like that keep parents from getting bored!












He had a bath and an early bedtime and I canceled our plans to go to an Easter egg hunt tomorrow organized by the mom's group I belong to. I was looking forward to watching Collin hunt for eggs but the crappy weather combined with Collin being around a bunch of other kids didn't sound like a good idea. Mike and I might organize our own Easter egg hunt tomorrow by dying some eggs with Collin and hiding them around the house.

Of course Collin has no idea today was a birthday party or that tomorrow's Easter. It's all just another exciting day in the world to him.

Hopefully he'll be better soon and we can check another illness off our list.

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Happy Bithday Collin!

Collin is two! And yes he can proudly hold up two fingers and proclaim this.

What does this age mean so far?

It's part sweet, part aggravation. The best are the questions asking me for a kiss or hug, the coherent sentences, the huge smiles and the independence, well this is both good and bad--he refuses to sit in his booster seat lately and longs after the big kids on the playground trying to jump high on the monkey-bars or go for the tallest slide. He uses a fork and spoon like a pro (most of the time). He can take his coat and shoes off, throws his dishes in the sink and sleeps in a big boy bed.

The hard parts are the flailing screaming tantrums because he's frustrated or God forbid you gave him the wrong snack. Or you put a cap on his Elmo watching. Or maybe he's just tired. Or teething. Or it just feels good to scream. Who knows. He's still torturing Hurley our poor cat and then looks shocked when Hurley finally scratches him.

Food wise he's hit or miss. For whatever reason he usually passes on pizza and toast with peanut butter or cheese which he used to love (although quesadillas are all good), pasta is a hit, as are beans, yogurt, anything fruit (especially "bluebons") and turkey. And now he eats cereal with milk--the kind I like, (the healthy Kashi stuff with soy milk), somehow that just makes me smile. This is combined with asking for "bacon" and loving spam, sausages and barbecue (obviously his father's son). He has been forgoing the veggies lately which he used to enjoy down so who knows. Bottom line we're not worried about Collin starving. Oh and Annie's fruit bunnies might as well be crack. Once I introduced those, he eagerly points to the cabinet several times a day with giddy chants of "buddies, buddies?"

Blue remains his best friend and our portable DVD player is a lifesaver (as are the Elmo movies he watches). Those 25 minutes can save my sanity and allow me to whip up dinner or grab the laundry. Rotting brain be damned.

Collin may be our future engineer. He likes to examine things and figure out how they work (he gets under the ride-on cars like a mechanic), he knows how to open doors, outsmarted the baby gate latch and is starting to figure out zippers.

He also loves "dodos" (the photo album) and points to "Papa, Nona, Mama, Dada, Uncle and baby" I don't think he's quite made the connection the baby = Collin. Toy wise his favorites are his choo choos, balls, his tool set (just like dad) and toy cars. He also loves looking at books and will occasionally have fun with blocks. Dancing is also a hit especially if it involves mom or dad lifting him in the air and spinning him around. He's definitely an energy ball and late this month will hopefully channel that into peewee soccer!

At Purple Moon he plays with his friends, does lots of cool art projects and for the most part is pretty sweet. He'll be moving out of the toddler classroom and into preschool in the fall!

For his birthday he brought cookies to school and I surprised him when I picked him up with a balloon bouquet, singing Elmo balloon included. Collin couldn't figure out where the singing came from but had a huge grin on his face. We went for dinner and beers at Hopworks Brewery (okay he had milk). Despite not eating until nearly 8pm, he was a trooper and happily played, ran around and enjoyed some spaghetti, French fries and a special birthday ice cream sundae! Not a healthy food day to say the least but birthdays are all about hedonism even when you're two, right?!


All in all he's a fun, dramatic, independent, stubborn and happy tot. A year ago he was barely walking and now he's blasting through the world.

Slow down Collin, I can't chase you forever.

At birth:


On his first birthday:



And today:

Monday, March 15, 2010

An almost two-year old!

I've been a bad mommy blogger lately. Figured we were due for some updates.

Collin acts like a typical toddler. He has his bad side: flailing, all out temper tantrums on the floor, hitting and throwing, but the sweetness reigns. Those baby toothed smiles, the two word phrases, (favorites: "Hug momma?") make it hard to stay mad at him for long. He definitely knows how to push limits. I can see why they say toddlers are little teenagers. Absolutely no regard for safety, immortality is a given. He's the kid that will step to the line and put his foot over it just to taunt you.

I'm trying to empathize more, understand the power toddlers want to exhibit when everything else in their world is pretty much powerless. But it almost makes me lose it when he tortures poor Hurley the cat. Luckily the cat is very forgiving.

Collin talks all the time and is due for another sedated hearing test though we want to find out if it's really necessary at this time. I hate the sight of the mask over his face to put him under. Considering he has other hearing evaluations that will tell us how he's responding to sound, it doesn't seem like something we need to rush to do. He repeats practically everything and is at the typical level of communication for his age. It is important to continue to evaluate him and make sure he doesn't lose any hearing in the good ear.

And now for some pictures:








Saturday, February 13, 2010

New Kitty on the Block

I started craving a cat a few weeks ago. If you asked me if I'd end up with another pet after we said goodbye to our beloved dog and our (horribly mean) cats I would've laughed. However, I was convinced there are friendly felines out there. I grew up with the sweetest tabby ever. Our two tortoiseshells proved to be near evil and after attempting to claw Collin and annoying us to no end we gave them up for adoption.

A week ago, Mike gave in to my craving and informed me he bought a littler box and cat food (props for good husband!) That weekend we went to the Humane Society with Collin and looked through the Plexiglas windows at the mewing, mostly sleeping, cats. There were a few that seemed a little too wild. A few that had just a few lives left and then the cutest of the bunch, the kittens. I was a little nervous of them around Collin. He definitely hasn't grasped "gentle" yet. One of the volunteers told us she had a sweet male kitten. He was about 5 months old and a little groggy recovering from surgery.

We agreed to spend some time with him and she brought us a soft gray-blue bundle of fur named Hurley. And he was oh so sweet. With white socks markings. We decided to take the gamble and bring him home. Collin was very excited. His chants interchanged between, "Hurey, "Kitty," and "Cat."

The first few days were a little iffy. Hurley refused to come out from under the couch (except to eat and to use the litter-box thankfully). He was terrified and trembled whenever we approached him. I was convinced he hated us. About three days later he finally let me pet him. And then slowly opened up to Mike. And now he'll even hang out with all of us in the same room. Collin loves to chase Hurley around and try to feed him his food. Hurley mostly ignores Collin, or runs for freedom into the basement. But occasionally he'll let Collin pet him.







He most definitely likes being around his people and is a talker. He will happily let you give him a belly rub and loves resting his chin on my arm. It's nice to have a companion as I work (although it can be irritating when he decides to attack the computer screen or walk on the keyboard).



I hope Collin will grow up with warm memories of Hurley, just like I have with my beloved cat, Moppet. RIP old friend.

Friday, January 29, 2010

and how could I forget...

"Clock!" Minus the "L." Makes for amusing looks that's for sure

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Chatterbox

I cannot believe how much Collin talks. He's absorbing everything and a lot less frustrated with communication (= way less hitting too). He's starting to string words together but doesn't quite do sentences. Example Collin phrase: "Dada shoe." "Momma Uhoh" (as in momma I broke something). I'm trying to write down all his words but everyday there's something new and it's hard to keep track of them all!

The concern about his hearing is pretty minimal at this point. He's definitely on target if not ahead with language. Toddler talk is just about the cutest thing ever. I'll try to be unlazy and charge the video camera to get some Collin conversation in action.

Here's a breakdown of Collin's (nearly!) two year old vocab, I'm sure I'm missing some. He's also repeating a lot (watch the cussing around him!):

Momma
Dada
Nona (grandma)
Baba (grandpa)
Uncle
Blue (the dog)
Elmo (newest obsession)
Baby
(He's also said friend's names and names of other kids: Katie, Ali, Kai Kai, Anna)
Cat
Doggie
Duckie
Gecko (kind of random but he loved these guys in Hawaii)
Light
Bubble
Botty (potty, says it but won't use it)
and along those lines: Poop, pee, diaper
School
Sun
Moo (moon)
Die (sky)
Pillow

Ball
Balloo (balloon)
Book

Purple, blue and orange (colors in context)

Apple
Nana (banana)
Orange
Apico (apricot)
Dodee(tomato)
Mah (milk)
Pumpkin
Pear
Juice
Oameal (oatmeal)
Bean
Wah (water)
Puff puffs (cheddar corn puffs)
O's
Blueba (blueberrys)
Chee (cheese)
Cook (cookie)

Shoe
Socks
Pants
Shirt
Coat
Hat

Knee
Eye
Tee (teeth)

Choo choo (trains and cars, doesn't quite differentiate the two yet)
Bite (Bike)

Hot
Cold
Yummy
Yucky

Uhoh
All right
All done
Bye Bye
Hi
Up
On
Nigh nigh (night night)
No
Yah
Mine
More
Help (just started saying this for when he needs our assistance like scooping out the rest of his yogurt)
Sit
Peas ("please," according to his teacher but I have yet to hear it!)

Monday, January 11, 2010

The day in the life of a toddler

Collin loves "balloo," of course Blue and also his new baby.
From Winter 09-10


"Choo choo" time with dad!



And there's nothing better than making a fort