Seven years ago, freshly married, Mike and I went on a quest to purchase a little slice of the American Dream and own our own house. We were pre-approved for an amount we couldn't possibly afford (and we know how that ended up for the country). So to avoid an eventual foreclosure, we found a house within our price range in inner NE Portland, a few blocks from MLK Blvd. This was a neighborhood I never would've driven through as a teenager growing up in Happy Valley. It was in the "ghetto," full of shootings and gangs in the nineties. Now there were some new shops and restaurants starting to come into the area. People scoffed at our decision, "Don't get shot!"
We knew we didn't want to live in a new development in the trenches of suburbia so we took a gamble on the inner city. The house was big and romantic, full of character, built in the turn of the century and sure it had some work ahead of it, but we saw potential.
Of course moving into an "up and coming" neighborhood had its drawbacks and if we had kids there was no way we would've chose it. There was the time Mike was almost car jacked. Solicited by a prostitute in front of our house. Multiple shootings blocks away. Hand to hand drug buys. Stuff, sheltered me, had not been exposed to growing up. My personal favorite was the knock at our door at 3 am by a woman who wanted to borrow a metal spoon for her kid to have "ice cream."
Gradually things started to change. Neighbors banned together to force the cops to act on the crack house up the street and then crime started to disappear. Families emerged with kids. New expensive boutiques and restaurants with rave reviews started popping up around us. Suddenly we were in one of the hippest 'hoods in the city. Gentrification was a hot button topic and were right in the middle of it.
The house was project after project after project. Instead of hiking and spending the summer outdoors, Mike was often pounding away at the basement. We added a bathroom upstairs, upgraded the kitchen, refinished the fir floors, made the basement livable, added a kick ass deck, and of course other odds and ends that pretty much consumed the whole of seven years.
We also became spoiled with so many delicious food options nearby. If we didn't want to cook, we could walk five blocks to four different restaurants or ride our bike to more. There was Middle Eastern, Cajun, Thai, pizza, comfort food, burgers and fries, you name it. When Collin came along, we met other families in the area, explored kid stuff and went to the many parks in the area.
And then Milo was born and our house seemed so much smaller. We considered an addition but we'd basically be the spendiest house in the neighborhood and it just wasn't worth it. And although major changes had occurred and it was much family friendlier place to live than when we moved in, our neighborhood still had a ways to go. Part of me was tired of the dilapidated houses, garage bands, gangsters that drove by and syringes that still showed up at the park.
We had grown to love NE Portland though and we wanted to stay in the area. Ten to fifteen blocks made a huge difference. We hoped we could find something a little further "up the hill," with at least 3 bedrooms and a better layout. We were also open to other parts of the city that were close-in and near hip restaurants and shops.
Then disillusionment set in. Living in one of the hottest areas has its drawbacks. Houses we looked at that were up to half a million dollars left us with a total taste of "meh." Our choices were paying a crazy amount of money for a house that wasn't that great and would still require more work, or move to another "up and coming area." Sorry, did that, not interested. We were open to the idea of cosmetic changes, little things. But most of the houses we saw would require something major. And I realized to get the ideal house in NE or SE, we'd need about $600K. And unless we won the lottery that wasn't happening.
We used to live in SW Portland and liked it so that was our first inclination. The downside, less pedestrian friendly, definitely more driving, and far less hip. Priorities change, however. With two little boys, I suddenly saw the appeal of the cul-de-sac or a dead end street. I dreamed of a neighborhood like I grew up with little kids running around and a responsible teenager that could babysit my kids (who didn't have babies of her own). This gave us that option without moving too far out. We would still be close to downtown. SW also had diverse restaurants, farmers markets and lots of wooded areas and parks. Of course we couldn't just walk up the street when we didn't want to cook. Upside: save money. Schools were also highly rated and most of all, you could get much more house for a lot less money. And of course there was nothing stopping us from driving to our old 'hood once in a while.
It just made sense/cents for us and so we decided to trade in our urban life for something a little quieter.
So here we are. Ready to begin a new chapter.